Thursday, December 30, 2010

One Decision Can Change the Course of the Rest of Your Life

5 years ago today my life was very different. I was a young, divorced, single mom, who had recently left her long time job in banking to go to the University of Colorado full-time to pursue my dreams of becoming a lawyer. I had been dating on and off for the past 6 months but nothing really materialized.

I went on Match.com at the urging of one of my best girl friends, one of her friends met her husband through a similar site and she thought it was worth a try. After 3 weeks on the site I started talking to a young, cute, single dad who lived about 50 miles from me. After emailing back and forth and several long phone conversations, he asked me on a date.

I was nervous to go meet someone in person I had only talked with online but I had a good feeling about him. He seemed so sweet and we had talked on the phone for hours. We decided to meet at Starbucks. He didn't have a cell phone so we set a meeting time at a Starbucks about halfway between both our houses. I showed up and waited and waited and waited and then checked my phone only to realize I had a voicemail from him saying he was at Starbucks and was wondering if he was at the right one. I didn't even realize there were two in the area! I quickly called my sister (who lived in the area) and got directions to the other Starbucks. Luckily I made it to the other Starbucks before he decided he had been stood up.

And the rest is history...

Nate and Michelle since December 30, 2005.

Nate and I, March 2006, Las Vegas, Our 1st Trip Together.

May 24, 2008, The Day We Became Husband and Wife.


September 2009, Still Happy Together!

Monday, December 27, 2010

Saying Goodbye

How do you say goodbye to a loved one when you know this will be the last time you see them on this earth?

How do you prepare your children for the death of a beloved family member?

Dying is inevitable, none of us will live forever, but it doesn't make it easier.

Last Monday, on December 20, 2010 we lost my husband's grandma JoAnn. It was a tough blow to take. My husband was close with her, my kids were close with her, I adored her. We had just lost my husband's mother a year earlier and it seemed to make this even harder to deal with.

JoAnn was a loving grandmother to my husband and to my children and doted upon them day in and day out. Nothing brightened her day more than seeing the children. My kids spent a lot of time with her, weekly family dinners, babysitting when she was in better health, just stopping by to check in on her and say "hi". She was 82 when she passed away and lived a very full and happy life. She was a joy to be around and I very much enjoyed spending time with her. We will all miss her very much!

Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal. ~Author Unknown

The angels are always near to those who are grieving, to whisper to them that their loved ones are safe in the hand of God. ~Quoted in The Angels' Little Instruction Book by Eileen Elias Freeman, 1994

My flesh and my heart may fail,
but God is the strength of my heart,
and my portion for ever.

Psalm 73:26



August 2010, Brennan, Wynter, Phoenix, and Grandma JoAnn

August 2010, Wynter and Grandma JoAnn


Our wedding ceremony

Grandma JoAnn being escorted down the aisle at our wedding

Our Wedding, May 24, 2008, Photo of all Nate's grandparents, aunts, and uncles. Grandma JoAnn is up front with the pink pants and white sweater, next to Wynter and Phoenix, Nate is two rows back, next to his dad.


2008, Brennan, Addison (my niece), Phoenix, Wynter, and Grandma JoAnn


Nate and his grandma JoAnn








Saturday, December 18, 2010

The Best of Friends Know No Bounds of Distance or Time

Being across the country from family and close friends is the hardest part of living in Maryland. Lucky for me I got to spend some time with my best girl friends last week. We've all been friends for 14 years or more and it has been fun to share life with them. I love you girls!


Catherine, her daughter Maddy, and N, the little girl she watches

Becca and Michelle

Becca and Me

Catherine and I have been friends for 20 years

Catherine's little sweetie, Maddy, Catherine, Michelle, and Becca

Becca, Michelle, Catherine, and Me

The youngest of our bunch, little R is sweet as can be and such an easy going toddler

The time went by all too quickly but it was so nice to catch up and relax and just spend time together. I don't get to see these girls nearly enough but still value their friendship a lot.

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

2010 Recap

2010 was a year full of adventure for our family. Since all our family lives out of state I pointed them here to my little corner of the internet for an update on what we've been up to the past year. For all my blog friends, feel free to read along too!

Last winter was of record proportions here in Baltimore! We got 80 inches of snow. That may not seem like a lot but typical snowfall is 18 inches and almost all of it came in 3 separate blizzards, 2 of them back to back in February. The entire state shut down for over a week, including the kids school and my work. It was more snow than I had even seen in Denver since 2006. I thought by moving to Maryland we would be blessed with a shorter, easier winter, last year that wasn't the case.

After we defrosted from all that snow, March brought an exciting event for our family, my sister Andrea was married on March 25, 2010. Her wedding took place at Disneyland and we took a 10 day vacation to California. We spent 3 days exploring Disneyland and California Adventure and then ended our trip visiting friends and exploring San Diego. It truly was a great trip and the wedding was perfect!

April held Cub Scout activities and the spring Cub Scout camping trip at Patapsco State Park. We got to hike with the boys and do all the normal camping stuff. It was cold but fun.

In May Phoenix had her first dance recital. She takes dance class through the county recreation program and learned both ballet and tap. She was completely adorable during her performance.

We spent Memorial Day weekend camping and rafting with a big group of friends at Ohiopyle State Park in Pennsylvania. That was the first time I had been white water rafting in 4 years and Nate was even the captain of our boat. It was quite the adventure!

As most of you know, I work as a nanny to twin 1 year old girls. Their parents are teachers so I get summers off to spend with my kids. We had a lot of fun this summer but also spent a lot of time relaxing and the kids just playing with their friends from the neighborhood. We are blessed to live in a neighborhood full of kids.

4th of July is always a big deal in our town. They host a huge parade and fireworks show and we host an annual BBQ (or cookout like they call it here). It was nice to spend the day with friends and to celebrate.

I started running in March and ran my first race in July, the Pikesville 5K. It was so amazing to set your mind to a goal you don't think is attainable and to stick with it. Running is something I never thought I'd like but truly love. It really is a passion of mine now.

The kids and I also took a road trip in July. Nate didn't have any more time off work after our California trip in March and upcoming Colorado trip so he stayed home. Despite being managing 3 kids alone and being the only driver, the road trip was a blast! We started out driving about 3 hours south to Colonial Williamsburg. Williamsburg, VA was the colonial capitol of the U.S. and is set up like a living museum. Almost all the buildings have been restored and all the people that work there are in costume and in character. It was so cool to see that part of American history come to life. After we left Williamsburg we headed to Willmington, NC to visit with my friend from Colorado and her kids who live in North Carolina now. We spent lots of time talking and catching up and spent an entire day at the beach. My kids can't seem to get enough of the sun and sand. After we left Wilmington we headed to my dad's house north of Charlotte, NC and spent a few nights with him. We visited and spent a day at this really cool park with all these amusement type rides. It was nice to be able to visit with my dad. The drive back from my dad's to our house was 7 hours straight but we survived. My kids are great travelers and do really well for long car rides and long plane rides. I am really blessed.

August brought us to Colorado for a whirlwind visit with our family and friends. We packed in a lot of fun activities and got to see all the people who are most special to us. We celebrated Nate's birthday while we were there by touring the New Belgium Brewery which was a lot of fun! We were also able to celebrate our friends Chris and April's wedding while we were there, which was really special to us.

September brought a new school year and all the busyness that brings along. Both the girls played soccer again this fall and did great. Phoenix dance started back up at the end of September too.

In November Nate ran his very first race, a 5k, and did fabulous! I am so proud of him for running with me and sticking with it. The following week I ran my first ever 10k and set two personal records, 1 longest distance run in a race, and fastest mile pace in a race. I love the group I run with.

This was our first Thanksgiving without extended family but it turned out really nice. We went over to the house of some of our couple friends, Jodi and Brett, and had a nice low-key Thanksgiving celebration. Brennan took his first solo flight to Colorado to visit with his grandma on his biological dad's side.

Brennan just started basketball last week and is having a lot of fun so far. He is a pretty tall kid so basketball seems like the perfect sport for him.

To finish out the year, Nate and I are taking a ski trip to Colorado without kids and my mom is coming to visit for two weeks over Christmas.

2010 was a busy but fun year for our family and full of adventure, just how we like it!

I hope 2011 brings lots of joy and blessings to you and your family as well.

Friday, December 3, 2010

We Are What We Repeatedly Do. Excellence, Therefore, Is Not An Act But A Habit

-- Aristotle

On November 21st I ran my first ever 10K race! It was a great race and a great day and I had so much fun. I set two personal records that day, longest race distance ran to-date, and fastest race pace to-date. I ran at a faster pace during my 10K than both 5K races I've ran this year. Not sure what came over me but I was determined to finish strong.

Here's our entire team! Fleet Feet Baltimore Next Steps. I am in the top row, on the left, black coat.

Here's our smaller training group, the one and ones. Janet was a fabulous coach and these ladies were great encouragers and fabulous teammates.

I really pushed myself in the middle of the race so at the end I was tired!


Almost to the finish line!

About to cross the finish line, I'm on the left. That's my teammate on the right, passing me at the last second ;-)

One of the coolest parts of this race is that they had a free kids fun run. My kids got to participate in their first race that day too. Mama was proud! They got free T-shirts and medals for finishing the race.

In sports B typically hasn't been the fastest runner but when his younger sister is trying beat him, man can he run fast.

Wyn on the other hand is the fastest runner on her soccer team. B did pass her at one point but she finished before him, 5th place overall and B 6th place overall. Not too bad for their first race!

Little FiFi thought the race was hard! After 1 lap she wanted to give up. Parents were allowed to run with their kids so I grabbed her hand and jogged beside her to the finish. I had just finished my 10K minutes before and was beat but wanted FiFi to know that it isn't important how fast you finish the race, just that you finish, and she did! I am proud of her for not giving up when it got tough.

Next up for me, I start training for a half marathon in February. I am looking forward to these quiet months of winter ahead but I am pumped to start training again in February.